Ethiopia Adoption Blog

08/21/07

Older children: Coming to America

Posted by : Mary Owlhaven in Ethiopia Adoption Blog at 07:25 am , 387 words, 192 views  
Categories: Adoptive Parenting
I thought it might be interesting to list some of the things that have amazed and delighted our girls since we met them in Addis.

They've discovered that although businessmen sometimes do fall on escalators, with much briefcase and suitcoat-flapping, it is possible to ride an escalator without trauma. It is best to watch at least 5 steps as they pass to properly gauge speed before jumping on, however.

They have ridden bikes for the first time. They've seen their first acres-wide new-car lot and their first car transport trailer and their first garage door opener. They've learned to play the piano-- half a dozen songs in the case of the 11-year old. They've learned how to work drinking fountains and grocery store conveyer belts and microwaves. They've played with automatic doors- repeatedly in the case of the 9-year old who had to be pried away giggling to allow the old ladies to get into Walmart.

They've discovered that when you call 911 -- and hang up -- you will soon see an American-sized policeman on your front doorstep, complete with gun. (Oh, yes indeedy!) And though you are small, and try to hide behind your big brother, the policeman WILL see you anyway. And then he'll smile just a little before he gets properly stern again.

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And after that, if you want to see your parents look alarmed, all you have to do is mischieviously sing out, "911, mom!"

They've learned that mom usually puts good food likes rolls or rice out along with the questionable American stuff but that if something strange accidentally gets on your plate, it is usually possible to pawn it off on a brother, who almost inevitably will like it just fine.

They've noticed to mom's dismay that a spotless room and a made bed is NOT a requirement of living here, despite their fear that first day. Now their room matches all the other bedrooms....which is to say, it looks like a bomb went off. ('Darn', I sigh softly, even as I am glad they are comfortable.)

And as for us, we've discovered that these new girls of ours have tender hearts and quick smiles and keen minds and boisterous laughs and ever-present songs and arms always ready to hug us back.

We are not sure how we have been so blessed.

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Comment from: BethPie [Member] Email
You've certainly been blessed with two amazing little girls! It sounds like they're fitting perfectly into your precious family. :o)
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Comment from: Jenn [Member] Email · http://www.redthreadroad.blogspot.com
amazing. my heart just sings while reading the story of your girls. i am so happy for you mary!
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Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
horray for messy rooms! and the universal availability of rice!
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Comment from: soblessed [Member] Email
Here's to many, many, many more wonderful discoveries for your girls! :)
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Comment from: jen [Member] Email · www.learningpatience.wordpress.com
Being comfortable must feel GOOD to them . . . and you!
PermalinkPermalink 08/21/07 @ 09:53
Comment from: emory77 [Member] Email · http://www.bullcityemorys.blogspot.com
what an awesome post, it made me smile!!! :)
PermalinkPermalink 08/21/07 @ 11:01
Comment from: Darla [Member] Email · http://knutzen-ethiopianjourney.blogspot.com/
This is why we love adopting older children. They bring such a fresh perspective to our lives as our other children become immune to life around us. Makes us all take a step back and realize just what God has given us. Thanks for sharing!
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Comment from: fourryders [Member] Email
I have God bumps! what a sweet post- so happy you are all home safe and sound.......
Meg
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Comment from: AdoptionBlogs Editor [Member] Email · http://editor.adoptionblogs.com
Cute blog! Loved it.
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 06:39
Comment from: linmawa [Member] Email
I was truly thrilled to read your blogs of your trip and homecoming with your daughters! I can see why you feel so blessed! We will be traveling on Sept 17th to pick up our 4 year old daughter. We pray that she will accept us and attachment will develop smoothly. Thanks for all your insights.
Linda
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